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You Don't Have to Say You Love Me: A Memoir (Hardcover)

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I've spent my mornings with Sherman. That's how reading this book feels-I listen as he tells me his stories and poems, as he traces his growing up and works to understand his relationship to his mother, who had recently, and unexpectedly, died. He doesn't shy away from his own short-comings and complicities; his words are honest and heart-breaking and funny. When I finished the book, I wanted to hug him and thank him for being unflinching in his attempt to face himself, and for his willingness to be so open with us, his readers.  -- Joan (RBB Staff)

— From You Don't Have to Say You Love Me


The Instant New York Times Bestseller
An Amazon editors' Top 20 books of 2017Shortlisted for the Carnegie Medal for Excellence in Nonfiction

A searing, deeply moving memoir about family, love, loss, and forgiveness from the critically acclaimed, bestselling National Book Award-winning author of The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian.

Family relationships are never simple. But Sherman Alexie's bond with his mother Lillian was more complex than most. She plunged her family into chaos with a drinking habit, but shed her addiction when it was on the brink of costing her everything. She survived a violent past, but created an elaborate facade to hide the truth. She selflessly cared for strangers, but was often incapable of showering her children with the affection that they so desperately craved. She wanted a better life for her son, but it was only by leaving her behind that he could hope to achieve it. It's these contradictions that made Lillian Alexie a beautiful, mercurial, abusive, intelligent, complicated, and very human woman.

When she passed away, the incongruities that defined his mother shook Sherman and his remembrance of her. Grappling with the haunting ghosts of the past in the wake of loss, he responded the only way he knew how: he wrote. The result is a stunning memoir filled with raw, angry, funny, profane, tender memories of a childhood few can imagine, much less survive. An unflinching and unforgettable remembrance, YOU DON'T HAVE TO SAY YOU LOVE ME is a powerful, deeply felt account of a complicated relationship. One of the most anticipated books of 2017--Entertainment Weekly and Bustle

About the Author

Winner of the PEN/Faulkner Award for Fiction, the PEN/Malamud Award for Short Fiction, a PEN/Hemingway Citation for Best First Fiction, and the National Book Award for Young People's Literature, Sherman Alexie is a poet, short story writer, novelist and performer. A Spokane/Couer d'Alene Indian, Alexie grew up in Wellpinit, Washington, on the Spokane Indian Reservation. Alexie has been an urban Indian since 1994 and lives in Seattle with his family.

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Product Details
ISBN: 9780316270755
ISBN-10: 031627075X
Publisher: Little Brown and Company
Publication Date: June 13th, 2017
Pages: 464
Language: English